How to Get a Threesome from Online Dating

Generally speaking - women are very protective of their sexuality and many will view the proposition of a threesome with extreme prejudice. That being said, most of them do have at-least some amount of bi-sexual curiosity and if approached in the right way, will be very interested in exploring a sexual menage a toi.

With online dating, whilst it is possible to advertise you and your girlfriend as a couple - doing so will put you and your girlfriend in the light of "looking for a sexual encounter", and as I mentioned, women are very protective of their sexuality & will tend to refuse direct invitations purely as a gut reaction.

The very same girl who refuses a threesome when approached directly, would easily agree to exploring the idea when approached correctly.

So just what is the correct approach when looking for a threesome from online dating? Actually - the best approach is not to approach. Don't contact her, because the moment that you do and she views your couples profile (assuming that you already have one open-minded girlfriend) she will immediately feel propositioned for sex and her programming is to automatically reject such propositions (don't worry guys, if you don't already have a girlfriend, that's even better... and I will discuss that in a minute).

But assuming that you do already have a girlfriend who is open to exploring another girl, the best approach is to write your profile in such a way that you talk a little about your thoughts and opinions on the idea of open relationships (use the words 'open relationship' - not 'threesome') remove the sexual component from the equation as much as you can, because women operate around relationships - not around sexual encounters. So spend a paragraph or so - which can look something like this (if you already have a girlfriend)

- start by telling a little about yourself (create some attraction to your personality - hook her a little bit first) and then add:

CAUTION
This profile belongs to a gentleman who is a little bit unlike most of the gentleman that you may meet online. Most of you will probably want to take the next exit and mouse-click to another profile, because this gentleman actually believes that monogamy may be something of an out-dated concept. The ancient Romans knew of no such constraint and their civilization was one of the greatest in history. My (female) partner and I (use the word partner, not girlfriend - to avoid tripping her eject button) are very much into an open philosophy in regards to how a happy and harmonious relationship can endure and thrive in today's modern world. I often wonder if it is possible for more then two people to be involved in a relationship together. I was fortunate enough to experience it for a time, nearly a year and it was lovely - I'd love to experience it again with partners a little bit better matched then my last time. (if you already have had a threeway relationship, there is nothing like demonstrating a little experience to apply that this is something normal to you).

Alright, that's the version if you have a girlfriend (and if you do, actually, this is harder - because girls don't generally prefer to feel like they are invited into a sexual scenario, they would rather seek one out on their own with a single man who they have already made into their sex partner or booty call).

Anyway, now - all that you need to do is start advertising. I don't even suggest that you necessarily put up a photo of you and your girlfriend. Don't trigger her competition instrincts. You metioned your female partner, that's enough for now. Notice how in your profile you are not stating anything which indicates that you are seeking a sexual encounte - instead, you are simple proposing the question "I wonder if it's possible". This works like a challenge to the girl who is interested. If she is, she is going to be eager to write and tell you that she thinks it MAY JUST BE possible (with her).

Now what you need to do is fire up one of the profile exposure routines that I talk about in my book in order to get a lot of women looking at your dating profile, and simple wait for them to make contact with you. When they contact YOU - by using this method, you skip the potential of tripping the girls auto-rejection (of sexual proposition) alarm. She will read your profile with an open mind, she knows the score, and if she contacts you, all you have to do now is execute solid online game - and you can setup any sort of scenario that you want (once you prove that your cool, interesting, charming and not just looking for sex).

Of course, executing solid online game is a large topic worthy of a book... which is actually something I've written. You can check out The Art of Online Dating if you want to learn more about how to skillfully communicate with a woman online. But generally speaking, using false assumptions (baiting her) and taking a generally non-sexual path towards sexual innuendo will be your best bet here. Just let the escalation happen smoothly and naturally as if it was just you and her getting to know each other minus the existance of another girl (your girlfriend) but be SURE to at least mention the threesome fantasy, so that she knows it's squarely on the table from the start. If you don't bring it up and set the stage in the beginning, then it will become very difficult to add it later.

Hope you guys liked this post, in my next one, I will talk about how to get a threesome from online dating if you don't already have a girlfriend. I know I said I would talk about it in this post, but actually... getting a threesome when you don't have a girlfriend is really similar to getting laid, generally speaking. So I am going to write an article about that instead.